OT: Important Safety Information--please read

Important Safety Information–please read

Received this message in an email. It contains some very important information about keeping our children/grandchildren (and ourselves) safe. I hope you will take time to read it and pass it on…

Shannon could hear the footsteps behind her as she walked toward home.
The thought of being followed made her heart beat faster. You’re being silly, she told herself, “no one is following you.” To be safe, she began to walk faster, but the footsteps kept up with her pace. She was afraid to look back and she was glad she was almost home. Shannon said a quick prayer, “God please get me home safe.” She saw the porch lightburning and she leaned against the door for a moment, relieved to be in the safety of her home. She glanced out the window to see if anyone was there. The sidewalk was empty.

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked
her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

By Angel213: Hi. I’m glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!
GoTo123: LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
Don’t you live in a safe neighborhood?
ByAngel213: Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz’ I didn’t see anybody when I looked out.
GoTo123: Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven’t done that have you?
ByAngel213: Of course not. I’m not stupid you know.
GoTo123: Did you have a softball game after school today?
ByAngel213: Yes and we won!!
GoTo123: That’s great! Who did you play?
ByAngel213: We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross!
They look like bees. LOL
GoTo123: What is your team called?
ByAngel213: We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.
GoTo123: Did you pitch?
ByAngel213: No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don’t want them mad at me. Bye!
GoTo123: Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile…GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her
profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13

State where she lived: North Carolina
Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.

Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. Every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eight grade at the Canton Junior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn’t tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ball park that day. She didn’t want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn’t be so overprotective. By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely. He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn’t look scary and she quickly dismissed the fear she had felt. After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her. Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her.

It was only a few blocks to Shannon’s home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car. Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon’s house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

“Shannon, come here,” her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn’t imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.
“Sit down,” her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."
Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
“Do you know who I am, Shannon?” the man asked.
“No,” Shannon answered.
"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."
Shannon was stunned. "That’s impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He’s 14 and he lives in Michigan!"
The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn’t true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to find kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. Your name the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."
Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don’t live in Michigan?"
He laughed. “No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn’t it?” She nodded.
“I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn’t as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you’ve learned a lesson from this and won’t do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?”
“It’s a promise!”

Please send this to as many people as you can to teach them not to give any information about themselves. This world we live in today is too dangerous to even give out your age, let alone anything else.


Although the story serves as a warning to everyone to be careful… it is not true.

Read here:


It sounded like an urban legend to me, but all the same it’s message should be heeded.

Nadja xxx

Interestingly enough, one of my girlfriends from work and her sister have their three girls in the same summer camp daycare and the two littler girls are on a soccer team. On three different occasions, these two moms and other as well have noticed a seemingly “normal” looking guy at the games too when other parents are there, he’s clean dressed and such. But when the team breaks for snack or whatever, he just stands in the same place as he was while watching the game. this struck them as odd and they and a couple parents said something to the daycare administrator and were met with "well keep an eye out."
WTH? you march right over there and politely ask “can we help you sir?” because he obviously doesn’t have a kid with him that is part of the game. then today in response to more parents calling, the center said they didn’t see him listed on the local sex offender registry and assured them that they would watch for him at the next game. again…WTF? i would rather run the risk of embarrassing an innocent person than the alternative… call the local police and have them talk to him! HELLO!!! if you think it’s weird, SAY something. I feel bad that now they have to worry how the center is watching their kids!!!
I’ve read the above story before in a few different forms so i tend to ignore it when it’s emailed to me because it’s hokey, but i agree the message is one that should be heeded. we had a local news report that researched “myspace” and found 10 kids that had blogs there that listed all sorts of details and when they told the authorities or i think one of our local kid safety outreach groups who in turn called the parents, NONE of the parents knew what their kids were doing NOR did they agree to be interviewed or even quoted as to what they thought about it. But the next day all the spots were magically deleted! It’s sad that we have to be so vigilant, but I am also sad that so many people miss the simplest opportunity to be safe.
I hope i didn’t offend anyone, i fell off my soapbox now…

MySpace is the WORST for stuff like that. Seriously. My parents won’t let their kids online unsupervised, and I won’t let mine on unsupervised, either. Well, when I have them. The internet is a VERY scary place, especially if you don’t know what you’re doing.

But I could tell that Shannon story was a fake simply because they used correct spelling and punctuation. If it was real, it would have read:

GoTo123: j00 pitch?
ByAngel213: no i play 2nd base. i gtg. my hw g2b done b4 my prnts r back. i dont’ want em 2b mad. BBL!
GoTo123: C U l8r. Bye

Oh… I know for sure it isnt true…

I posted it because I think it is a good example of what could really happen… sometimes kids do not realize how muh information they are giving and “trust” people online just because they say they live “far far away” from them…

Sorry if it upset someone :frowning:

Oh no, no one’s upset! :hug:
I am all for messages like this! Post away! It is spot on to what I mentioned earlier about the myspace stuff and how even kids in my own town (you know the “it doesn’t happen here” type of place) don’t realize there are stalkers out there. I was a kid in the 70’s and although there were still creeps, it’s so much more scary as the years go by and with the internet?! It’s getting harder and harder for parents to keep up!
:heart: We’re all happy! :heart:

For college students the big thing is face book right now. Its amazing the stuff these kids will put in there - including pictures and names (not porn, just DETAILS).