Hi I’m slowly losing patience here and need some help! pattern starts on 7 sts then says "increase into every stitch (14 sts) - i have done this and no matter what I do i only end up with 13 days - eternally grateful for any advice 
Welcome to KH!
Which pattern are you making and which increase are you using? I would suggest one like the knit front and back (kfb) or the neater kfb shown here:
http://yarnsub.com/articles/techniques/kfsb/
Hey thank you! I have attached a photo of the pattern. This is my first project after knitting lots of practice squares
. I will give this increase a go and hopefully it will work better 
Thank you for your help! I used the technique shown in the video and it has worked very well 