sorry i havent been on in a while but i have been a little to streesed so not great company.
nearly 6 years ago i gave all my savings (about $10,000) to my dad with the previsor he gave me a small amount each month to live off of. i also took out 2 credit cards (for his use) and a loan (again for his use) because he couldnt. it total it was about $15,000. for the first 3 years there were no problems, regular money debts paid off fine. then about 3 years ago my money stopped (in the mean time i was paying $800 food and rent for my son and me pluss working for him part time caring for my frale gran and now for my disabled mum.
my dad is asking my brother to send money to my bank (he cant because he dosent speak french) and he keeps saying the bank isnt doing it even though he’s asking them to. im now in arears with both credit cards by about $1500, the loads paid off in the first 3 years thankfully. i get no money but still pay my dad the $800 per month.
this isnt my dads fault at all and i know he feels bad about it but rather than talking to my brother about it he’s yelling at me saying its my fault i now owe over $1500 in charges (i havent looked at the latest that i descovered about today!!)
my brother isnt the nicest guy in the world and when i try and talk to him i get a huge row.
i just dont know what to do next. i have debts to pay with no money being given to me. i cant get a job here as i dont speak french well enough to work ( i have tried to get a job to sort it out myself ).
sorry i know this is a rant and i will shut up and figer it out