I am the mother of a beautiful 15 month old son but I cannot knit in front of him…ever. He tries to take my knitting needles and use them as a sword. He rolls out my yarn and tries to taste it. And he loves to look for treasures in my knitting basket.
I’m just curious at what age you were able to knit in front of your little ones.
Never. I have a 16 month old that sleeps from 6:30 pm to 6:30 am so I use my evenings to knit. I can’t even imagine trying to knit in front of him. He is so active that he would just tear it apart or just freak out because I won’t let him touch it.
He’s in daycare all day so I only get about an hour and a half each night with him before he’s ready for bed. I spend as much time with him as possible when he’s up. I’m not sure what I’ll do when he starts going to be later . . .
When ever I want to do a yarn project and little ones are around I take a minute to teach them to finger a chain with yarn. That usually keeps them busy for a little while, if they make them long enough and enough of them you can hang them from the light fixture in their bedroom as a decoration, or use them for hair ties.
I have knitted with, in front of and around my 2 yr. old granddaughter since she was born. I am very careful not to leave the needles laying around and keep all of my knitting tools and yarn stowed in covered, plastic containers. I can actually hand her a 16" circular set, made of bamboo or a set of the 9" plastic ones and she will mimic knitting. She is closely supervised. I feel strongly that she will, one day, want to learn the art and possibly already has the needed dexterity. I do feel that with close supervision, children can and should be exposed to all the needle arts. I learned to sew from watching my mother and a neighbor, at the age of “as far back as I can remember”. I became a professional seamstress and enjoyed a good living from it for a long time. Men do needlework and are very adept. These arts are no longer integrated into our school systems and we are the only ones left to teach them. By all means, knit in front of them and teach them a respect for the tools, with close supervision. Just remember to place everything under lock and key when you can’t supervise. Mary
I knit in front of my 2yo dd - and she always wants to “knit” too - so I give her a set of my bigger needles and my practice yarn (for when I’m learning a new pattern/stitch) and let her have at it. She usually turns the needles into drumsticks or spoons, but I try not to discourage her, as long as she’s playing safely.
Suzie - your son sounds like mine! He sleeps from 6:30-6:30 and I do knit at night (I’m a working mom as well). I definitely don’t try on the weeknights but on a Sunday afternoon while he’s walking in circles around the house between watching Blue’s Clue’s and playing it would be nice to do something simple!
Wingem - I can distract him with the tape measure but that’s it!
mwhite - I do put everything up high and away from him. He does know how to get into my bins of yarn but that’s all that’s in there. I don’t let him play with needles because he “walks with no brakes” so I’m scared he’ll poke his eye or something!
Abodenrader - How long before she tries to take over your knitting? Does she like pretending to knit?
I’m hoping to be able to knit in front of him when he’s 2 1/2 or 3 but I still think he’ll want to play with Mama’s “toy”.
my little one has been exposed to knitting her whole life. my Mom was knitting for and in front of her since she was a baby. She understands that knitting needles are not toys and not hers. last year (4) we gave her a pair of plastic needles and some cotton and let her try (supervised.) I think because she was so used to seeing it, the “novelty” factor was low. and I don’t think she felt like she had to compete with knitting for grandma’s attention. (spoiled by grandma!) so she never went after the projects or tried to pull anything out.
but every kid is different.
we have “quiet time” before bed. she will lay on the bed with me while I knit or crochet and she gets to watch TV. sometimes she works on “her” project. snuggle time and knitting time in one. we also listen to books on tape this way.
maybe if there was something else to capture his attention while you worked…
I’ve been knitting since my youngest was just over a year old, and I have done it in front them right from the start. I’ve been very clear that they can’t play around my “knitting corner” (I guess I’m territorial! :teehee:) and it hasn’t been a problem at all. Even the 18 month old that I babysit leaves my stuff alone. If they showed interest in learning, I would teach them but so far we haven’t had that. They show very little interest at all!
I knit in front of my 3yo son all the time - he’s completely intrigued by the whole thing. He also likes to go to yarn stores with me (he also loves to cook, clean and do laundry - his future wife is gonna love me!)
I also have a 16 month old daughter, and there is no way I could knit in front of her - she’s crazy!
I don’t have any kids, but I do have a 15 month old niece. If I am babysitting, I do NOT knit when she is up and about, as she is a very curious, albeit precious (or is that precocious?) little darling. She tends to throw her arms up and around so I would be very fearful that she would send a needle up her nose or something like that (and it would happen to me, just because the weird things happen to me).
I do keep my yarn/needles/etc in a large zippered Lands’ End tote if I bring knitting along.
Mary - Unfortunately there is nothing to capture his attention unless it’s Blue’s Clues but I’ll just wait til he’s older. That quiet time sounds so sweet!
Eekee - Ha! I have been known to do that but since my DS NEVER lets me sleep in, I know I better get to bed by 10:30.
Knitqueen - I’m jealous! DS knows not to touch Mama’s knitting basket but he gets tempted. In fact if I forget to put it up the night before, he runs to it in the morning to find treasures. He’s too curious to respect people’s spaces!
Bobi1218 - DS LOVES to go to the yarn store…for 20 minutes. Then he tries to grab as much yarn as he can!
Sinistral Needler - Same here. There’s always bedtime!
I have 2 DDs, ages 3 & 1, and another DD due mid-Oct. I knit in front of my girls all the time. They each have their own “knitting bag” (a ziplock baggie) with US15 bamboo circs and a little bit of cheap acrylic yarn. When I knit, I give them their bags to occupy them. Of course, it doesn’t always work, but it usually does!
[COLOR=darkorchid]I knit infront of everyone :woohoo:I do find that if I set the younger children up with something they can do with yarn, obviously depending upon their ages I may have them make finger chains, or I’ll hand over my Wonder Knitter, or have them make some I-cord… I love when they make I-Cord for me :woot::woot::woot:[/COLOR]
I knit in front of my kids when they were little and my grandkids. They know better than to touch my stuff. Grandkids say “ma-maw” is mean 'cause I’m of the old school that a smack on the hand or butt and a firm “no” should do the trick. If you just keep everything put away, they don’t learn any respect for other peoples things.
I figured you put things away, Mari!! And I’ll have to agree with MaryKz, they are ALL different! And my babies never slept that long or well either! LOLOL!!! I just hate it that the needlearts are no longer in the school systems… I talk to younger women all the time that really want to learn how to knit, crochet, cross stitch, needlepoint or sew. Some would just like to be able to fix hems or zippers…
I began knitting when my oldest (now 3.5) was 1 and he used to play with the yarn, he had his own skein. Then my dd was born and she’s grabed my projects a few times but was scolded and now they both know that it’s MINE and they’re not to mess with it. She just turned 18 months and # 3 is due Dec. 4th
I knit in front of my 2 and 1-year-old all the time. They will play with the yarn for a few minutes than they are off to do their own thing. I cannot practice on my stenograph machine while they are awake, because they will never leave it alone. If I could not knit during the daylight hours, I would be a crazy stay -at-home mom.