I know that most people do not know that dh and I have been trying to conceive for 16 months now. We have been selective about those who know…just our parents and our best friends.
So I know that this person did not intend to hurt me, and I don’t blame them. At the same time, I wonder where they learned their manners!
At the grocery store the other day, we ran into someone we haven’t seen in quite awhile. He asked us where our “other little one” was. We smiled and said, “Oh no, we still have just the one.” And he replied back with, “You should really get working on that. Because it’s better for kids to have closer siblings. It teaches them how to get along with other kids and blah, blah, blah…”
I know it wasn’t intentionally cruel, but we would love to have another child, and short of artificial means, we are doing EVERYTHING we can do.
I just wonder: WHY is it his business? Really?