ok everyone I have this person that is suppossed to be my best friend freind since 5th grade and Im 22 years old :?eyebrow: ok so heres the story:
My dog rascal was diagnosed with terminal cancer on Oct 28th. The Doc said she would probably only live for another 3 to 6 months. Well we chose the option of keeping her alive on meds to keep her at her best quality of life…if she got worse we planned on getting her put to sleep so she would not suffer…we didnt want that for her. Well I was of course hysterical when I found out. All throughout the time frame my dog was sick and I was upset I would try to get out to take my mind off of things, so I would make plans with my friend to go out. Every single time she would never show up, she wouldnt call me to let me know the plans were cancelled :grrr: instead I would sit in and try to call her house and cell phone but no answer till after a while(hours later) I got ahold of her and asked her what happened? She would reply oh I stayed at the daycare late so my aunt could do this and that (numerous excuses like shopping, take her baby a walk etc)as if it was no big deal GRRR We had plans that isnt right!
Ok so in addition to her exhibiting this rudeness oh I dont know…18 times or more. She would begin to act like a hypochondriac which she did before but not to this extent :doh: It got so bad that she started only calling to talk or coming out once a week if that. So saturday night my fiance was working and I woke up to find rascal terribly ill :pout I was so besides myself that I called my best friend and told her what was going on, she hinted shes sick again blah blah blah woe is me :wall: oh and at this point I hadnt seen her for about two weeks or heard from her so then in despair I pretty much begged her to come over just to sit with me…I said this through my tears and mind you I never ask her to do anything for me its always the other way around! After I pretty much begged and said it was just till Kyle came home she said ok. She said she needed to get showered and shell call me before she comes over. So I said ok and hung up the phone.
I called her back about 2 hours later and her sister said she went to bed and told her not to wake her up shell call me back. Needless to say she didnt call me back and Rascal died the next afternoon in my fiance and my arms :crying: As I mourned for my dog the next couple days I said NO this is where I draw the line I will not call her to let her know what happened she should call me for once its a two way street. am I right?!
Today her brother came over he is our friend as well and called her to see if she was coming out even though I told him no dont :-x and she asked to talk to me I said hello in an emotionless voice and all I said is are you coming out today or what and she said no but Im making you something with my sewing machine in a whiny voice but ill be out tommorrow I said ok bye and hung up.
How do I convey how mad and upset I am! I felt like saying shove it up your :!!!: Things can not buy my friendship. So I need to know what to do? Im always the meek mild friend who gets walked on and I have had it! She still doesnt even know my Rascy is dead…what a good friend :roll: