Hope no one else posted this already…
DEAR ABBY: My mother loves to knit, and she’s superb at it. When our children were born, Mama was delighted to have new family members to knit for – and she has done so throughout their lives.
Last summer, Mama announced that she will no longer knit for our oldest, “Heather,” who is 12, because Heather loses everything. Mama said she will no longer pour so much effort into a sweater, hat or scarf only to see it disappear because it was left on a playground.
Last Christmas, all the children received scarves, but only those of the younger two were hand-knit. Heather’s came from a store. It was nice – but it was store-bought.
Now Heather is very hurt, and I don’t know what to do. We love our daughter, but she hasn’t learned to care for her things, and Mama is adamant about her knitting. What should we do? – LOST IN OREGON
DEAR LOST: Explain to your daughter that, as hurt as she may feel about the scarf, it’s a drop in the bucket compared to how her grandmother felt having spent hours creating a one-of-a-kind item only to have it left somewhere. Heather is not the offended party – Grandma is. A step in the right direction would be a handwritten letter from Heather to her grandmother apologizing for her carelessness.