Do you approach other knitters?

General Knitting
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So today on the bus, a “regular” got on, and imagine my surprise when he sat down next to me and pulled out some knitting.

I am reserved. I am from California, where we don’t talk to strangers. But I am (kinda) in the south now, where people seem to talk to each other all the time.

I looked at him from the corner of my eye. Twice. And debated this very question. Does being a knitter yourself give you the right to approach other knitters?

Serendipity occurred in the form of a sudden jolt from the bus, which sent his yarn flying onto the floor at my feet. (y’all just go ahead and go “EW!” now, as you think about bus floors)

I couldn’t help it. I asked what he was knitting. I asked if I could feel his yarn. Thank goodness, he was gay and southern, and didn’t seem at all encroached upon, even though we were on a bus and it was before 8AM. We talked about knitting until his stop.

It was kinda weird. The other bus-riders were definitely checking us out. You don’t normally talk to the other people on the bus, especially before 8 o’clock in the morning. But because he was knitting, I felt like maybe it was okay.

What do you guys think?

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I approach knitters if they are knitting, every knitter i’ve ever met enjoys meeting another knitter and enjoys talking about their project because usually their SO doesnt understand.

but i had to stop myself at the supermarket the other day. this college girl from SDSU (and even though i’m 30 i look like i’m 17) was wearing calormatriy (sp?) headband and i almost went to her and asked if she knitted it and what yarn she used bc i sooo loved the yarn and i wanted to touch it.

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awww that sounds nice!! i really only “approached” a knitter once and it was a customer that i was helping at work so i am supposed to be “friendly” and “chatty”. i’m like you though…i don’t like to bother other people. but it sounds like he welcomed your comments/conversation. sometimes it’s nice to be somewhere where people don’t normally talk to each other (like the bus) and just say to hell with it! we are all people on this bus, let’s conversate! i wouldn’t actually stand up and yell that though…too shy :teehee:

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hahahaha that is hilarious!!!:roflhard::roflhard::roflhard:

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I talk to strangers in knitting stores all the time

I talked to my waitress at breakfast this am quite a bit (seems she HATES knitting on Circ needles) and I decided to convert her and I bought her a set of 16" circs and a skein of lovely blue green yarn, (she will say MMMMMMM when she touches it)
and I put in a pattern for a simple twisted ribbed hat
and dropped it back to her in the middle of the lunch crowd, she was like "NO WAY, oh WOW"
felt good to start someone on the road to addiction (this addiction anyway)
I was walking the dog hoping she would pee before i went into the yarn store and I looked in a gallery at the lady at the main desk who was knitting. She and I locked eyes and i nodded and smiled at her. I think she GOT it

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I encountered a crocheter in the laundry room of my apartment. She works for one of the older people in my apartment and was doing their laundry. She was crocheting a blanket for a commission actually. I just asked about what she was doing and told her that I knit. People are often VERY surprised that I knit. I guess they don’t expect young women to knit.
Also, one time in the shoe store I used to work at I asked a woman if she knit her scarf. It just looked handknit, you know? She did and told me all about something she was knitting for her granddaughter. I find it can be a great ice breaker.
We were in the emergency room friday night (long story, everyone is okay) and I had my knitting. I whipped it out and started knitting my scarf. Several women watched and one older woman said “she’s a pretty good knitter” in a surprised voice. I wish she had come over and talked to me, but it may have been a little awkward in the hospital.

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I don’t often see someone knitting, but if I do, I always at least try to see what they’ve got going. A new teacher at work is a knitter, and I found that she sits with me at meetings so she doesn’t feel uncomfortable pulling out her own needles. I’ve always got mine.

I was waiting at the ER one time and some Chinese women came over and examined my knitting:teehee:. All they could say was ‘pretty colors’ but gave an appoving nod.

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I rarely see someone KIP-ping, so I usually do say something when I see someone else knitting…

if my daughter doesn’t get in a “My mudder’s a knidda” first…

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There is NO way I could have have someone sit right next to me and NOT start up a conversation about their knitting. :knitting::knitting:Good for you!!

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Well, I am originally from New Zealand, and we talk to [I]everyone[/I], so its a no-brainer for me :woot: you can’t shut me up.

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Oh honey… I’m from the south… and I am shy… but, very friendly… IF I saw anyone knitting… anywhere… I would talk to them and I have.

I have had people on planes say something to me and me to them. I don’t see many people knitting in public… but, the few times that I have-- I have talked to them. Most knitters are by nature ‘giving’ people- so, they are NOT going to take offense if you talk to them. After all, those that don’t knit are already staring at them… and I’m sure that they’d appreciate a conservation w/ a fellow knitter.

I knit in public all the time… even on the street ‘waiting’ for a friend to pick me up for while (car was in the shop) and I’ve knit on the subway here in Korea… I get stared at all the time- since, I have NEVER seen anyone knitting in 8+ years of living here… ‘knit in public.’ However, I did see one person crocheting on the subway once.

I’ve had people approach me in other countries if they see me knitting. Now, we might not know how to ‘speak’ each other’s languages… but, knitting is a language all it’s own. I show them what I’m doing/etc… and I’ve had some even write down a stitch pattern that they’ve seen me knit.

I live where there is a big yarn market and sometimes some of the ‘yarn sellers’ will come up to me and actually touch and try to figure out what I’ve done… or they recognize the yarn as one that they sell. I try to take anything that I’ve finished back to the people who sold me my yarn… so, they can see what I’ve done.

I have had quite a few people look at me with what I’d like to think as a little envy (USA and overseas) wishing that they had thought to bring their knitting or wish that they knew something like that to keep them entertained while waiting.

Non-knitters will even approach me and share about some relative/etc. that knows how to knit… (ok, usually they get it mixed up with crocheting) and I do my best to explain what I’m doing/etc… I figure if I take the time to ‘educate them’ that maybe in the future they’ll want to knit or be more appreciative if they ever receive a knitted gift, or see someone else knitting. Children seem to stand still amazed at the knitting procedure.

So, go ahead… approach those knitting… share your most recent project… they will not take offense… after all… they are OPENING UP THE DOOR by knitting in public, right?

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i actually chased a women down because
she was wearing a beautiful capelet
she was surprised and happy that i liked what she made
sylvia:knitting:

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As my dh says, I have no problem talking to anyone, about anything. On our flight to Dallas a few weeks ago I had a lovely conversation with a mennonite woman with a baby. It turns out she was born in the town where I went to college…and NO ONE ever knows where Waxahachie, TX is! We had a lovely talk.

On the way home, I was reading a book (sort of…I was also entertaining my dd) about raising your children while you are in full time ministry. The gentleman sitting next to me told me all about his daughter, who is a youth pastor.

No wonder I pursued a degree in counseling, huh?:wink:

I’ve found that people who don’t want to be bothered will let you know right away (short, closed answers are pretty good indicators) but usually, people like to talk about what they are doing and what is going on in their lives. The smallest connection with another person can really turn your day around.

So talk to other knitters! I try to always make a point to comment on whatever they are making…and find something to compliment.

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I have also found that most people appreciate someone taking notice of an activity being noticed and commented on. It’s not just knitting. Look how often someone walking a dog gets greeted.
I will strike up conversation with people I see doing something interesting, most are willing to discuss their activity at length and sometimes you may make a new friend.

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I have a friend who was raised in Waxahachie. But she went to school in College Station. I love the name but she and her family are the only people I have ever heard of that are from there.

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I was just in Waxahachie last week! Dh’s family lives there now, so we get to go back about once a year. I wouldn’t want to live there, but I love to visit!

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I would definitely talk to someone who was kip’ing, but I’ve haven’t had the opportunity to do so. I’ve kip’ed twice this week in restaurants. Once the server (a very good looking young man) just kept staring at what I was doing, but he never said anything. I kept waiting for “my Grandma does that”! :slight_smile:

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I’m from CA and now I live in Boston where people also don’t talk to each other. I ride the subway to work and it is rare to see another knitter. I actually sat right next to another knitter for about 30 minutes and neither of us said anything to the other. It is just so risky striking up a conversation on public transit. Before you know it, the other person is telling you about the cult they are in or their neo-nazi beliefs or how their dad abused their cat and you are totally stuck until you get to your stop. Then you have to pray you never see them again.

Of course, if someone asks what I’m making (knitter or not), I am delighted to talk about it (though the risk of them being nuts is the same). I guess maybe I find it flattering that someone is willing to risk the possibility that I am nuts to ask about my knitting, lol.

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I would definitely have started chatting with him right away! :slight_smile: I live in the South, and have all my life, so I guess it’s just natural to me. I start up conversations with random people all the time, and people do the same with me.

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I’m with Abbily - I think it would be really hard to move to a place where people didn’t acknowledge each other…boy, they would really think we were nuts!!:eyes: