Hmm, I've never had a S&B "party." We have a S&B group that meets every Friday morning (we rotate homes) and whoever is hosting serves coffee and a snack if they choose. Once in a while the hostess will serve lunch and our morning goes into early afternoon. Mostly though, it's only a couple of hours in the morning. We don't play games. We literally do what the name "Stitch & Bitch" says. We all bring our projects and share ideas, problems etc and talk about what's going on in our lives.