I just don't know how to fix the way I am wrapping the yarn around the needle.
This has been bothering me, I obviously don't understand. When are you wrapping the yarn around the needle? For the wyif it's just moving the yarn between the needles and not over or around one, isn't it? That's all I can think you're referring to. I'm easily confused though so that's probably why I'm the only one not getting it.