You have to be separated 1 year here, unless there's abuse/cheating/etc, then it's shorter or something. There was a paperwork problem that delayed mine two more weeks, then 31 day wait.
Rolling up on 31 days (this weekend.) Then it's.over.forever.
My boyfriend is in divorce court with his ex-wife today, his is more complicated (house, kid etc) and in this case, his ex-wife is the bum, not him. He's pretty stressed worrying about how it will go down.
It is true that it is much easier to get married than it is to get divorced. My ex husband refused to pay for half the (small) court costs in order to scr3w me over, so since I am on student loans, I had to go in front of a judge and plead indigency. So humiliating. Made me hate my ex husband even more. Oh well, live and learn.