Judgmental and hurtful!? Egads! What did I say that was judgmental and hurtful?
I think we're being a little hypersensitive here.
I apologize for anything I might have said to hurt anyone's feelings, but I was mearly expressing my opinions, they are as valid as any of yours. If you feel differently then debate me on the issue, I'll be happy to engage you in a friendly argument. I think accusing me of being hurtful is a little unfair.
Putting a hole through ones hand, to me anyway, is a sign that that person must be feeling poorly inside and wants to express to others how they feel. That's just my opinion. It's not hurtful simply because you disagree. I'm not saying that person is a bad person. I'm not saying that person should be shunned or removed from society. I'm merely saying, perhaps that person needs a good hug.
I never intended nor did I expect to hurt anyone's feelings with what I said yesterday. If I did, then I sincerely apologize.